From the Rector: Father Chuck Mann
A Message about Youth
“And they were bringing children to him that he might
touch them, and the disciples rebuked them. But when Jesus saw it, he was
indignant and said to them, ‘Let the children come to me; do not
hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. Truly, I say to you,
whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter
it.’ And he took them in his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on
them.” Mark 10:13-16
Jesus held a special place in his heart for children. He
saw in them a heart that was searching, a heart that was open to the
truth. In these verses from Mark, we see children being brought to Jesus
to be blessed by him. The disciples were being overly sensitive and
protective of Jesus and began to rebuke these actions. But quickly Jesus
puts his disciples in their place. His words that follow are piercing,
“…do not hinder them…” But sometimes we do hinder them. We hinder them in
ways we may not be fully aware of.
Nativity has a terrific Sunday school program. Our
teachers are eager and enthusiastic about working with our children, and
our new curriculum that is being introduced this coming fall is second to
none with cutting edge resource materials. Jeannine and her helpers have
done a fantastic job in seeing that our Sunday morning programs are
provided for.
But there is more to youth ministry than Sunday morning.
Youth ministry, like adult ministry, requires an effort that continues
throughout the week.
This is especially true for our junior and senior high
school youth. These teens and young teens face peer pressures that have
become
increasingly heavier as each year goes by. We as a church and as a parish
body have a responsibility to see that our youth are supported in their
life and ministry.
When a youth walks in our doors and asks, “What is here
for me?” I don’t want any of us to just say, “Well, we have a great Sunday
school.” I want to also tell him or her that we have youth night on
whatever night, we have a youth Bible study on whatever night, and we have
scheduled mission trips and youth outreach work being done in the
community. In addition, I want to tell youth we have a place they can come
to and vent their frustrations in life, to grow in the Lord, and to be
strengthened by a parish body that will stand and support them as we
promised to do at their baptism. I want to tell them that we have a
mentoring program where some of our retirees take part in visiting with
our youth who in a few years will be facing real life. Can you imagine the
knowledge that a retired Christian can give to someone who is seeking
direction in a career path? What a resource of wisdom and knowledge!
When I was called to be your rector, I asked the search
committee
a few very direct questions. One question was about Nativity’s commitment
to youth. I asked if this parish was committed to a solid youth program—a
program that will minister not just through Christian education and
children’s chapel on Sunday mornings but to building a youth program for
all youth including junior and senior high school kids. These youth need a
place to grow, to learn, and to be supported in their faith—a place where
they will be able to share and support one another. Such a program would
require the additional staffing of a youth minister who has the talent and
skills to work with our youth and to reach out to other youth. The search
committee’s answer was overwhelmingly yes. We recently conducted a parish
survey regarding the search for a bishop coadjutor in this diocese. Again
the number one concern, reflected not only at Nativity but in survey
results throughout the diocese, was our youth.
So, I believe that all of us feel the same way about the
need and the opportunity we have regarding our youth. I cannot express how
important it is that we make every effort to build such a program here at
Nativity. We are sitting in the middle of one of the fastest growing areas
in the Sarasota/Bradenton area. On Lockwood
Ridge alone there are five new communities being constructed right now.
People are visiting us weekly in search of a church home. We have an
active program that is attempting to reach those moving into our area, and
people are seeking us out. Our parish family has grown by about 70 persons
in the last year alone. Our vestry has been restructured and increased in
number in order to better facilitate the ministries we currently have and
the ones we are building. We are adding a contemporary service to our
Sunday
service schedule in June. This additional focus in broadening our worship
style will certainly be attractive to youth and young
adults as well as many senior parishioners. That has been my experience in
over twenty years of contemporary worship.
I want to reiterate my commitment to you and to our youth
here at Nativity. I am now actively seeking ways that this might happen.
It is my hope that we will have a program beginning by the end of
this summer. It will take commitment and financial resources
to make this happen. I know in my heart that this is vital to the ministry
of our parish family and to the youth in our area who are searching for
purpose in their lives as we all are. Please pray for this program and
that God will move in a mighty way to make this happen.
Your brother in Christ,
Fr. Chuck